They may cry a nightmare for parents, especially if you are in a supermarket or restaurant. Most children pass through this phase - in fact some children pass through this phase more than once. Both my children were little Maniacs right to shout and 1 and 3
Sometimes it may be that your child only to frustrate shout, but it is not. In general, the cry for attention, or it may simply be that only very much like him. Screamed in large construction as a shopping center can be a very good response, so it is natural that they want to experiment.
In many cases, the media word that they want something, as a rule, is something that can not and should not have. My son threw hissy fits into the second week of business, because he wants out of the trash. I had to cut short my trip and procurement carried out by car.
Work with the child screaming
Do not revenge - Sometimes you can shout right to return to his son, but, believe me, this does not work. In the end, it turns out that competition is strong, and the result is no more than a few sore throat and maybe a few tears.
The diversion - a better bet for use as divert their weapons against a child screaming. For example, if your child some candy stains in the food business and started to scream, try some healthy snack options. Or you can try to play as the game "Eye Spy". This works well in my case, although many times I have tried several other things before I succeed. For my little boy almost 2 points of things that are new for him and his repeat what I say. I say this with great enthusiasm, so that he, too, are pleased.
Prepare - Planning ahead is a good idea if you have for business. Lee has always been my snack bag along with my sippy cup. If you long day, I will also throw some toys. I'm trying to separate the toys for our own publication, so we are always interested in them because they have something special.
Programming - before leaving, make sure that your child is well. Good time to quit only after sleep time or shortly after she awakens in the morning. They also want to ensure that a full stomach. Children can be very annoying when they start to get hungry.
Let them participate - with children to the maximum extent possible, it is also a good way to avoid crying. My daughter likes to press the OK button to the ATM, if they go to the bank. He also likes to help select food items. This keeps his opinion, occupied in the task, but something other than that they do not have.
Choosing the place of family life - If you plan to eat at a restaurant with your child, for more families, places, and not peaceful or more formal. I always choose a restaurant in town when my children. It is always full and loud. That is, if my children start to shout that they are not so noticeable. They also called for "carrying a child" as soon as we were sitting, so that children can eat immediately.
Cameras vote - such as easy as asking your child to use their inner voice can easily make a trick. I always wonder how well it works. I learned that for Barney! Fun purple dragon or the fact that, of course, the practice sometimes. Or that the dinosaur? I can not recall.
Stay calm - Keeping his voice, and his quiet and gentle tone of help, a good example for your child. As you could wish his voice, preserve a neutral tone is always the situation even worse. This can be very hard, but it stands on end. In addition, many practices, but I am confident that the time that your child has grown You have a lot of them!
Deposits - If you are in the public and all will be trying to work it might be better to your child, even if it means a grocery cart full of food in mid-passage-12.
Recognize, but no one - If your child is crying because of what you anger, recognize their feelings and help them to work until the end. If they call because they want something that can not only certain calm and peace. But things are worse in the long run.
One to remember that this phase occurs. It may be hard to believe that if you are in the middle of overcrowded, and you feel like everyone looks at you because your child is screaming at the top of the lungs. It is likely that, however, that none of these people do not forget that the next day. What matters is his family and deal with them in difficult times. You can not sacrifice the opportunity to promote good behaviour in the interests of residents of certain views.